Yom Shabbat, 28 Tammuz 5777

Domim – A new partnership between Shaarei-Beth El and Kiryat Yuval in Gedera, Israel

Partnership kick-off Shabbat
Saturday May 14th 
9:30 am Torah study led by Rabbi Horav
10:30 am Shabbat morning with focus on Israel featuring a sermon by Rabbi Hovav
12:30 pm Festive Israeli lunch

From Rabbi Stephen Wise

As we have developed stronger connections to Israel over the past few years here at Shaarei-Beth El with visits and learning, I would also like to develop some more personal connections to the members of a specific synagogue in Israel. When I was in Jerusalem in February, I met with the leadership of the IMPJ, the Israel movement for progressive Judaism. They looked at our synagogue here in Oakville and wanted to match us with a similar size congregation in a smaller town in Israel. I then met with Rabbi Myra Hovav of congregation Kiryat Yuval in Gedera, and we instantly hit it off.
 
On the following Shabbat I travelled down to Gedera (about 30 min south of Tel Aviv) for Kabbalat Shabbat services and met everyone and then a few families had me over to their home for dinner. It was so wonderful meeting the families and the children and we had a great dinner and I wanted to do the same for their Rabbi. Our two synagogues are thus embarking on a new partnership called Domim, which means “alike” and we will focus on activities to strengthen the bond between our two groups.
 
The next part of this partnership will be a visit by Rabbi Hovav to our congregation on the weekend of May 14-15. She will join us for Shabbat morning, lead Torah study, speak at our service and be our guest for lunch. On Sunday morning she will join us for Mitzvah Day and the Interfaith Walk for Peace. In this way we will get to know her better and show her a bit of our congregation. It happens to be the weekend of Yom Haatzmaut so there will be special significance to having her visit. 
 
Over the next year I hope to establish a connection between our religious school students and the children of Kiryat Yuval. Next summer, 2017, when we have our family trip to Israel, we will be able to visit Gedera for Shabbat evening, and see their community and join them for Shabbat dinner. I believe this is a really exciting start to the partnership and my hope is that it builds, with continued visits from our congregants there and their congregants here, and we go from strength to strength.
 
From Rabbi Myra Hovav

 

Our kehilla was established five years ago and I am their first Rabbi. Gedera is a town of approximately 30,000 residents located 15 km. east of the city of Ashdod and 10 km. south of the city of Rehovot.  

We are within the 40 km range from the Gaza strip so we are almost used to sirens going off in our area – it has been part of our routine since the end of 2008 when Hammas started using long distance missiles. The summer of 2014 was particularly challenging for us. “Red alert” sirens went off every day. Baruch Hashem, nobody in Gedera was physically hurt, but it has been very close, more than once, and emotionally devastating. We are a very young community with many babies, toddlers, and young kids.  Most of our members live in the newer areas of Gedera and have built-in sheltered areas. However, there are also other residents whose shelters are not close enough to their homes. This is also the case with respect to schools. 

The main challenge during that summer was that the army has strict orders with respect to the opening of schools and preschools.  They were closed for a few days and then some of them could be open, if they have a sheltered area which is close and big enough, while others remained closed. The municipality is responsible for the public schools and supplied alternative accommodation, but many children, especially very young kids and babies, attend private preschools, and those of them who do not have sheltered areas are still closed or get partially opened in private houses.  Almost all preschools are only open half a day because the sheltered area is usually too small for all kids to sleep in, and it is obviously impossible to move the kids into the sheltered area within one minute, which is the time it takes the missiles to get to our area. We have several families where the men were called to serve in the Reserves, unlike regular reserves duty.  This is what we call in Hebrew “Tzav 8” – enlistment order no. 8 – which is not limited in time. We also have several families where the parents work for the army as their daily job, and obviously they are also extremely busy and see their families very rarely. Many people can hardly go to work, and even if they do, they are worried about their kids staying away from them.  It is also not safe enough to go outdoors and families are practically locked inside their houses, going out only very briefly for necessary shopping etc. We held a special Shabbat morning activity one time and met in one of the local houses for a fun morning, with a small pool for the kids, baking challah together, kiddush for Shabbat, and a pot luck lunch.  We had 30 people, which is remarkable given that less than an hour before we started another siren went off. We also had one of our volunteers, a child psychologist, lead a story time and crafts session for our kids. The story and the kids› work were focused on dealing with stress.  This was also held in one of the private homes.

Today at Kiryat Yuval we have a vibrant community with some challenges. We do not have our own synagogue building, we use the entrance hall of one of the local schools for Shabbat services but this space is not available for us during the week.  We have to hold all the rest of our activities in private homes, which has always been challenging but has become now even less convenient. We have Kabbalat Shabbat services weekly and are happy to have many participants. We hold B’nai Mizvah studies regularly. We keep working in one of our largest projects, a support group for mothers after giving birth which is called “the YUVAL stork.”  A new baby in the family, though a very happy event, is always also stressful and challenging. Our volunteers maintain the project, which was started 3 years months ago and has supported 55 women so far. Most of these women are not members of the kehilla.

A few months ago we were invited by the Leo Baeck Center in Haifa for a fun day. We had a full bus and more families driving their own cars, altogether over 80 people, including 7 babies and almost 40 kids. We spent the morning in the Haifa zoo, spent time at the Leo Baeck swimming pool and had lunch there.  The kids were watching a movie and we ended our wonderful day joining a musical Kabbalat Shabbat service with Rabbis Gabby Dagan and Naame Dafni Keln and members of Ohel Avraham congregation. It was a wonderful experience and we are deeply thankful to Leo Baeck staff for the invitation and for Keren Bechavod who sponsored our ride and part of our stay.

Our congregants were deeply touched by the warm welcome of the Staff and members of Ohel Avraham and it gave us all a strong feeling of belonging to the same big Reform family.  For most of our congregants, Kehillat YUVAL is a first experience in the Reform Jewish world.  The trip to Haifa was not only fun and rest, but also a wonderful community opportunity to feel the strength of the Reform movement and the commitment of Jews to each other in Israel and all around the world. 

We are excited to begin a new partnership with Shaarei-Beth El in Oakville, Canada, and I look forward to meeting you.